I Fell In Love W/ A Sex Offender!
Found out I'm dating a registered sex offender | Lipstick Alley
25 Oct Holly Thorogood's was unaware her boyfriend Martin was a sex offender - and she only found out when she googled him. When Holly Thorogood met Martin Hoyle, pictured left, with girlfriend Holly, right, was placed on the sex offenders register for an attack on a pensioner. Nothing could have prepared. 19 Dec A few weeks after the pair began secretly dating; Susan's then husband found out his wife was seeing Josh behind his back. Their children were 2 and 5 Susan isn't the only woman willing to overlook the past of the man she loves, even a man with his name on the sex offender registry. While it may seem. Yes I've googled him when we first started dating but he has a very generic name so I found nothing alarming. I confronted him Monday evening and he was pretty nonchalant about it. He said in '02 he had sex with a woman who was just 6 years younger than (he is in his early 30's now and was only 20 yrs.
Discussion in ' Jane Doe Alley ' started by incogneatoNov 11, Tapatalk is temporarily disabled. A server update is running and unfortunately, Tapatalk causes the server to crash when this particular update is running. Once the update source complete Tapatalk will be re-enabled. Nov 11, 1. I've been dating a wonderful man since May We literally have a million things in common and we bond so well I'm an Aries, he's a Leohe takes good care of me, and we're very sexually compatible.
And he's fine as hell. I've met his family this summer and they were all very loving and accepting of me and my child as part of their family even though we aren't married yet he calls me his "wife" already. It was a link to the familywatchdog website telling me to search for him in our zip code.
Pow, there he was. I did a little more snooping and I found more information on our state's Sex Offender website. I felt my heart drop to the pit of my stomach and I started shaking.
Like seriously feeling nauseous, I was so disgusted like any woman would be. Yes I've googled him when we first started dating but he has a very generic name so I found nothing alarming.
I confronted him Monday evening and he was pretty nonchalant about it. He said in '02 he had sex with a woman who was just 6 years younger than he is in his early 30's now and was only 20 yrs old at the time. He says it was actually a completely consensual encounter but her overbearing parents ended up having him arrested and he did about a year in jail for "rape in the 3rd degree". So he has been out since and has had a completely clean record since then.
Now that I have an understanding of the situation I considered it water under the bridge because he's not some child predator. But his life has been somewhat ruined because of this incident and that breaks my heart. Even though I have told her the whole story since Sunday she wants to listen to what the website says only.
This happened a long time ago when he was very young, barely out of his teens well over a decade ago. My question to y'all is should I be more worried about this than I am? I honestly trust him and his account I know him and I know he's not a monster.
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He has been totally cool about everything including my snooping his moon sign is Pisces so he's very understanding and empathetic. I really just want to more info this behind us so we can move on.
Nov 11, 2. And now you're gonna be fine with it simply based on what he's told you now? He clearly knew her age and even called her parents over bearing! As if the parents were in the wrong.
That's why you're hear. Your best friend is trying to talk some sense into you!! But you want him anyway. So keep fucking the sex offender. You even have justified it in your head smh. Nov 11, 3. Did you look up 3rd degree rape? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk. Nov 11, 4. Nov 11, 5. If your common sense hasn't told you what to do then we cant help you.
Nov 11, 6. Nov 11, 7. Socipaths know how to act normal, just enough until it's time to strike. A 20 year old knows better than to f ck a 14 year old child. You have a child, how dare you be so nonchalant! I bet you have a tomboyish figure too, that's why he interested in you, or the fact you have a child. I don't know why you on here looking for someone to convince you he ain't right, when it's obvious you are comfortable dating a child-molesting felon.
Nov 11, 8. He's a fucking monster. You have shit for brains, no wonder he was able to seduce you. Men like that gravitate towards single mothers, with low self worth that are Fuck it you're an idiot stop thinking with your pussy and use your brain.
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Nov 11, 9. You're a single parent dating a convicted sex offender. What does your child's father and grandparents have to say? Nov 11, Fuck a moon sign! The fact that he wasn't upfront about it should be enough for you to bounce. Yes, people make make mistakes but he should've been upfront.
Like seriously feeling nauseous, I was so disgusted like any woman would be. Take care, Stop It Now! More than likely the girl got caught having sex with her older bf and cried rape so she wouldn't get in trouble with her parents. In fact, when my 22 year old son turned 18, I forbade him to date any girl who was not 18 or older.
Plus you say he's nonchalant about it! Stupid bih, if that was your 14 year old he fucked what would you think or do? A 14 year old is a girl, not a woman. I turned 14 at the end of my 8th grade year.
The fact that he can look back on it and still blame it on the parents says everything you need to know. At first I misread the title and thought it said "Found out I'm a registered sex offender" lmfao. Ma'am just a heads up idk what state you live in but I'm pretty sure you're in danger of having your go here taken away for living with a registered sex offender Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk.
For him to her call her parents over-bearing speaks volume, that little girl was only He didn't care that he was messing around with her until her parents got the cops involved. He is a convicted sex offender and your friend is right to judge your fucked up relationship. Dump him, OP and move on with your life. How is he able to even be around children? I really do hope you think about this situation.
Think about this for the sake of your child. If he had nothing to hide then he would have told you upfront. He knows he's a registered sex offender but hid it from you, why? And you know offenders are Just Found Out Im Dating A Sex Offender suppose to be around children. I know you think you're in love but I think you should move on because it's not going to end well.
Also, the fact that you got an anonymous email, means you are under the radar. This bitch is trying to justify a 20 year old raping a 14 year old.
Do you really believe his lies. Your a fucking mother, someone in your position shouldn't say a 14 year old child has the mental capacity to give sexual consent. This piece of dick is more important than your child's safety?
There is better dick out there, I promise. Just look at how he chose to describe her parents and his nonchalant attitude. Doesn't sound like someone who's taken ownership of his actions.
He doesn't seem to think he did anything wrong sleeping with that child. That doesn't scare you? Honestly, I found your post confusing and astonishing OP.
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She is probably concerned on your behalf! You say you trust him, but he didn't tell you any of this and you have been dating for over a year. If a 20 year old showed up at my door to see my daughter bad things would happen. You must log in or sign up to reply here. Share This Page Tweet.
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