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7 Mar For a brief period of two months, November and December, I blocked him because I was mad and I am weak. I needed time to myself to think about what I wanted. Those two months was all it took for him to start dating someone new and get engaged. I started speaking with him at the end of December but. 19 Sep Getting serious with a man who's been engaged before--or know a gal who is? Then you'll want to read this. It hurts me to think of him going through that kind of pain. And since it ended badly for him once, I wonder if he worries that the same thing will happen this time. Bees, are any of you dating someone who was previously engaged? Or have you been engaged before? What are your thoughts on the situation? Helpful (0). Reply.
Messages You have no messages. Notifications You have no notifications. Dealing with a bit of a crisis For a brief period of two months, November and December, I check this out him because I was mad and I am weak.
I needed time to myself to think about what I wanted. Those two months was all it took for him to start dating someone new and get engaged. I started speaking with him at the end of December but he did not tell me he was engaged had only been engaged a week when I initiated contact and apologized for being passive. From there on out, he initiated contact, and we continued having conversations as if nothing was different and he often wanted to hang out.
I work two jobs so my free time is limited. I finally got to see him several weeks later, and of course, one thing Dating A Guy Who Was Engaged to another. Come to find out, three days after our encounter, a link informed me he was engaged. Over the phone that night he told me he made a mistake, and that he was pressured into being with her, etc.
I agreed to meet with him the next day to talk because he wanted to meet in person. He went on to tell me he has something important to tell me, and I'm the only one that will know. We meet the next day, and before he can more info speaking he is bawling.
He goes Dating A Guy Who Was Engaged to tell me that he has a lung tumor and that he is dying. Basically we spend the next two hours crying, he tells me he loves me for the first time, apologizes for not doing more for me, tells me I was the first person he wanted to tell when he found out he was sick. He found out in those two months of no contact that he was sick, so he is in the early stages of figuring it out. He also asked we keep his indiscretion on the DL, as he can't handle the stress of a broken engagement.
I was unaware that she had done this.
So, now, I wait, because he and I had made the agreement that he would contact me as soon as he had any news about his treatment. There is so much more about our history together that I am leaving out.
We have both attempted to see other people over the last 5 years, but it never worked out. Am I being duped here? Does any of this make sense? Delete Report Edit Lock Reported. Respond Your response must be between 3 and click.
They just do not have it in them, because they refuse to put themselves in a vulnerable situation again, leaving the door open for getting hurt again. At least those guys have some chance of moving on. Now they love to meet women and date around, but they will never settle down with anyone. JediAshley 6 years ago Wedding: September My SO was engaged 10 years ago.
You might be being duped but really it doesn't matter. He picked her, he didn't pick you and as harsh as this sounds Think of it this way Gracefully bow out and let them sort out everything else.
Delete Report Edit Reported Reply. It's odd that he discovered this lung tumor as it would have Dating A Guy Who Was Engaged to be giving him a problem coughing blood, difficulty breathing, chest pain, etc or he would have had to visit his doctor and get a routine physical exam that included a chest x-ray in order to spot this tumor.
The fact that he told you but doesn't want to tell anyone else convinces me, he's not being completely truthful about his prognosis. He had sex with someone else, got engaged, cheated on her with you, tells you he's dying. I think he meant to say he was lying.
I don't know if it's him trying to deal with whatever is going on in his head or if it's me making up things in my own head or what. September My SO was also previously engaged, and, yeah, she cheated on him. This is when I told him that I was becoming genuinely upset, and he responded that he was scared. Already have an account? A man that is afraid of proposing is generally apprehensive about any marriage talk.
I'd stop attaching myself to a guy who is so fickle with his love life, who cheats at every opportunity and who would not make any kind of decent companion for you IF you did get back with him. I understand you like him a lot but that doesn't mean he's good for you. Let her have him.
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Zombie Send a private message. Never talk to him again. Let someone else deal with him at your job site and explain that he's your ex and you want nothing to do with him. Send your story to Cosmopolitan.
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And if you can add that his fiance also just happens to be your best friend, then you have a winner. This is horrible, but man, if you take all the guyQ threads and shrink them down to one thread, this is what you get. This reply was removed by a moderator. Ask a New Question expand. Anonymous If a guy you've met online and talking to for six weeks suggest meeting at an airbnb for first date?
Anonymous A tip for men who are on-line dating statement, not question:? ThatConfusedPerson Do you think this guy likes me or not???
Anonymous Was she trying to get my attention? What's wrong with this question?